Hire A Male Butler
We are a butler recruitment agency for those who are looking for the very highest caliber butler. We lead the way in recruiting male butlers for High and Ultra High Net Worth households.
Contact us today and we will hire a male butler for you to your specific requirements.
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Customized butler recruitment to fit your lifestyle and household needs.
Our Butler Agency Can Recruit Worldwide
We have an extensive international network of male butlers and can recruit the very highest quality of butler quickly for you in the US, UK, and Dubai, together with many other locations.
Our experience means in most cases we can most fast and secure a placement tailored to what you need quickly.
The demand for exceptional male butlers has driven Morgan & Mallet’s expansion from a single London office in 2015 to a global network spanning Monaco, Paris, Dubai in 2023, and New York by 2024.
Every year since 2015, M&M opened a new regional office or training center to meet this growing need.
Also, year-on-year the entire team is becoming more remote, enabling us to serve far broader areas, for example we often get calls from Canadians, Texans, and Bahranians.
Trust Built on Personal Experience
Morgan Richez, co-founder, served as a butler and personal assistant to ultra-wealthy households. He understands the weight of working for million-dollar properties and the details needed when managing household operations.
Laurine Mallet, also a co-founder, worked as a nanny for high-net-worth families in London and Paris. Together, they’ve witnessed how male butlers bring distinctive qualities to luxury service and the ability to work with multi-staffed households.
At Morgan & Mallet (M&M), we can proudly report:
96% placement success rate – nearly every male butler we place becomes a long-term household member.
91% of our butler placements are male butlers.
Butler positions are among the top 5 most requested positions across the US, UK, UAE, and Europe.
DISCLAIMER
If your requirement is quite unique, we may struggle to find your male butler immediately, even with a database of over 200,000 profiles. When this happens, we’ll communicate directly that more time will be required.
For specific needs – such as butlers with security training or wine sommelier qualifications, the process may take longer.
Our 96% placement rate comes from taking time to secure the best match, rather than rushing to fill roles. This honest approach is why families have repeatedly returned to us since 2015.
Why Would a Principal Choose a Male Butler?
It’s important to note that these reasons are rooted in tradition and perception, and may be less relevant in other households where gender roles in domestic staff are increasingly fluid and based on skills rather than traditional opinions.
Traditional Authority & Presence
Picture this: the classic butler in white gloves, standing at attention. For many principals, especially those from traditional European households, this image runs deep. As Morgan explained to us recently, “Some families have had male butlers for generations – it’s what they know, what they’re comfortable with.”
Our data shows 81-91% of male butlers placed by M&M have experience coordinating teams, where their authoritative presence helps maintain household hierarchy.
Cultural & Regional Preferences
In certain Middle Eastern households, hiring a Western butler – particularly from France or the UK – carries prestige. These professionals often earn exceptional packages. A Western-trained male butler from France or the UK represents sophistication and international standards.
The Physical Tasks Perception
Many principals assume they need a male butler for:
- Moving heavy furniture or equipment
- Doubling as a driver or security oversight
- Managing physically demanding household tasks
But here’s what we’ve learned from experience: the female butlers we’ve placed demonstrate they’re more than capable of handling every physical aspect of the role.
The choice ultimately comes down to what fits your household’s culture, expectations, and service requirements.
What Does a Modern Male Butler Do?
The role extends far beyond silver service and formal dining. Today’s male butlers are part estate manager, part security coordinator, part family liaison.
Typical tasks a butler may be asked to do include:
Wine cellar maintenance (restock, select etc).
Managing household technology systems.
Plan with personal trainers.
Oversee a formal dinner for 50 guests.
Organize international travel plans.
Rachel Dixon, one of M&M’s leading recruiters, recently mentioned that clients are increasingly wanting more versatile staff. For example, a butler that will do the school runs, or a housekeeper who will cook.
Why 22% of Clients Want Their Own Alfred
While Batman’s Alfred Pennyworth never mentioned his butler school credentials (too busy saving Gotham), 22% of our clients specifically request butlers certified by recognized institutions.
Traditional butler schools focus on:
• Silver service and formal dining protocols.
• Wine service and cellar management expertise.
• Household technology and security systems.
• Multi-property management techniques.
• Diplomatic skills for celebrity or royal households.
Interestingly, butler school graduates often command 15-20% higher salaries, particularly in Middle Eastern markets where formal training carries significant weight.
Whether your ideal candidate comes with a diploma or decades of hands-on experience, we’ll find the perfect match for your household’s unique culture.
Who Hires a Male Butler?
From our experience, there are usually three types of people who call us about male butlers:
Personal Assistants: Most PAs suddenly get tasked with finding a butler and think “Where do I even start?” Just give us a call and we’ll assess your household needs immediately. Within days, you can tell your employer “It’s handled.”
Family Offices: Morgan & Mallet is often their go-to agency after successful placements of other household staff. They trust us because we understand their exacting standards.
Wealth Managers and Estate Attorneys: They’re brilliant at managing portfolios but finding household staff isn’t in their most favorite of tasks. We take the burden off their shoulders.
As a global agency, we regularly get calls from clients in Texas, Canada, or Saudi Arabia asking for butlers. Almost always, we can deliver the staff they need, regardless of location.
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Or perhaps you want to review past positions others have hired for? Have a look at some recent job descriptions here.
Other Butler Roles
Family Butler
A family butler is a household staff member who is experienced at working with families and their needs.
Traveling Butler
Hire a traveling butler if you require someone to travel with you from home to home or perhaps live on a yacht.
Head Butler
A butler who manages other butlers and other household staff.
How We Find Your Perfect Male Butler Match
Our sourcing goes beyond job boards. We maintain one of the most extensive databases and operate our own training school in France to ensure best-in-class staff.
Background checks are thorough; we verify employment history, qualifications, and social media presence. We use third-party suppliers such as Accurate and are always calling references and past employers.
You’ll see three to five candidates maximum, each with detailed profiles and our honest assessment of household fit.
The trial period helps both sides adjust. We maintain check-ins every ten days during the first three months, contributing to our 96% success rate.
We also guarantee the candidate for three months, and replace him free of charge if you’re not happy.
Luxury Staffing Insights
Globally, the demand for luxury staffing is increasing, M&M has seen a large increase in requests from returning clients, often traditional family offices. Another new development is the rise of “new money clients” which often include footballers, and celebrities.
Brexit in 2016, made the UK market far tighter than ever before, especially in London. The ONS report from July 2025 states that hospitality continues to have one of the highest vacancy rates among UK industries.
Another interesting development is an upward pressure on wages, especially in places such as London – due to a shortage of staff. Whereas Dubai has seen an explosion of demand for butlers.
- Over 95% of butler profiles in the UK are male butlers.
- 86% of M&M butler profiles in the UAE are male butlers.
- Globally, 91% of M&M butlers are male.
- The average experience of M&M candidates is seven years.
- M&M places about 1200 luxury household staff every year.
Your Next Steps to Hire a Male Butler
Our three-month guarantee includes check-ins every ten days with both you and your male butler, making for the most hassle-free placement into your household operations.
We listen beyond your brief – Our recruiters don’t just write your list down. We help clarify exactly what you need, drawing from years of experience to identify requirements you might not have considered.
Recently, a London client needed a butler with wine expertise. Our recommended candidate seemed overqualified in the interview, but we encouraged moving forward. Why? His leadership experience told us he was ideal for their multi-staffed household despite seeming “too senior.”
The client trusted our judgment and couldn’t be happier with their decision.
Contact Morgan & Mallet today to begin your search for the perfect male butler.
Frequently asked questions
Do people hire butlers anymore?
Our company data shows butler positions are among the top 5 most requested roles in the US, UK, UAE, France, Monaco, and Switzerland. Around 5% of our household staff profiles are butlers, showing there’s real demand from today’s wealthy families.
The role has evolved far beyond the traditional image. Modern butlers work in tech billionaire homes in San Francisco, waterfront estates in Miami, and beautiful townhouses in London.
What does a modern day butler do?
Today’s butlers keep luxury households running smoothly while staying completely discreet. They manage schedules, plan with other staff, oversee guest services, and handle the countless details that make family life effortless.
In places like San Francisco, 86% of M&M butler placements work with tech families who value both traditional service and modern flexibility. They’re comfortable with smart home technology while providing that personal touch families love.
They also manage vendors, oversee meals, prepare for travel, and adapt their style to each family’s routines and preferences.
Does a butler live with you?
Most butlers today are flexible about living arrangements. Nearly all candidates in our database are ready for either live-in or live-out positions, so families can choose what works best.
Live-in butlers often have private quarters on the property and can handle extended hours or last-minute needs. This works great for families who travel often or entertain frequently.
Live-out butlers work set hours and go home each evening. Many families prefer this setup for clearer boundaries or when space is limited.
Do butlers drive you around?
It depends on the household. Some butlers do drive, but many modern roles focus mainly on household management rather than transportation.
In larger households, families often have private chauffeurs. About 81% of our Los Angeles butler placements work in multi-staff homes where different team members handle specialized roles.
Smaller households might expect their butler to drive along with other duties. It really comes down to what each family needs and the butler’s skills.
What is the etiquette of a butler?
The most important rule for butlers is complete discretion – they never discuss family matters with anyone outside the household. This trust forms the heart of the relationship.
Good butler etiquette means anticipating needs, staying invisible during private family moments, and always looking professional. They communicate about household matters but know when to step back.
Interestingly, 22% of our clients specifically want traditional English butlers with formal school certification, showing how much people still value proper training.
How many hours does a butler work?
Butler hours vary a lot depending on whether they live in or out and what the family needs. Live-in butlers often work longer but more flexible hours.
Most work full-time positions – about 11.37% of our candidates specifically prefer full-time roles. Hours often go beyond regular 9-to-5, especially during events or when entertaining guests.
Live-out butlers usually have more structured schedules, typically 10-12 hours during busy periods. The exact hours depend on the family’s lifestyle and social calendar.